Boundaries


(Nick and Charlie's texts)

NN: I miss you 😭

Char: Ffs Nick my train is literally still pulling out the station!

NN: YOUR POINT IS?

Char: YOU KNOW IF I HAD A CHOICE I WOULDN'T LEAVE YOU

NN: LIAR

Char: HOW DARE YOU

NN: I DARE BECAUSE YOU'RE LEAVING!

Char: FINE I'LL COME BACK

NN: Don't say that I'll actually want you to haha

Char: I can't believe I got to keep your rugby hoodie

NN: You're evil, I should have washed it it's literally so smelly

Char: Yeah, smelly like you 😂

NN: Menaie

Char: Hey umm weird question, where do you see yourself in 5 years?

NN: Oh, that's a difficult question Char

Char: Is it?

NN: Well yeah, do you mean realistically or in a world where I can have anything?

Char: Realistically

NN: Well in 5 years you'll probably just have finished uni so we'd probably be renting a place near where you went to uni since I know you wouldn't really wanna move out that familiar environment, I think I'll do a Primary PGCE after my degree so I'll be teaching my class and we'll just be living our best life :>

Char: Wow

NN: What?

Char: I dunno, that just sounds amazing, god I love you.

NN: Awh, I love you too baby 🧡 can I ask you a weird question?

Char: You don't need permission silly..

NN: Of course sorry haha, so about Ben, like what boundaries should I have with him to make sure you feel comfortable, I mean, I think I'm being slowly more friendly with him, like I'm two weeks into a 3 year course and to be honest he's shown he's not a total tosspot. There's no avoiding him he's on my modules and to be honest I like working with him.

Char: Ah, well that's totally fine and cool. Bare with me my signal's dropping out.

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(The Squad)

Charlie: ASSEMBLE

Aled Last man standing: Yes Charlie?

Elle: Everything alright?

Tao: Eww how am I the last one here?

Charlie: Okay firstly I hope you're all doing well, secondly, I need helppp

Aled Last man standing: Situation report Spring, NOW.

Elle: ^^^^

Charlie: Nick's asking me what boundaries he should have with Ben and I have no idea what that means, I think he's saying he wants to be Ben's friend? Like, we talked about it a bit over the weekend and Ben's obviously going through a lot but him spending loads of time with Nick just makes me so angry. I've never really thought of myself as a jealous person but it seems I am.

Tao: Wow, that's kind of a lot to unpack, given what Ben has done to you I don't think you can be expected to forgive him, like, that's up to you.

Charlie: It's not about forgiveness, I think I let go of my hatred and anger for what he did long ago, I just don't want him actively in me and Nick's life :( Ben is a fundamentally bad person and I don't want him messing things up.

Aled Last man standing: I disagree Charlie, I don't think there's such a thing as a 'fundamentally bad person' and I don't think you believe that either, if you did you wouldn't have let go the negative emotions for what he did to you.

Elle: I think you both raise good points, but ultimately you can't control that Ben is going to be in Nick's life, you have to try to make it clear what you're comfortable with the type of friendship they have I guess.

Charlie: Jesus, as if having Nick at uni wasn't bad enough this mess really just is the cherry on top.

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Literal Jock 🏈: How is everyone today?

Curtain hair 💆: You know what? I'm bloody marvellous!

Mr Silence 🕵️‍♂️: Tao is happy? Uh oh, something is very wrong here.

Curtain hair 💆: How dare you, I am the literal embodiment of joy.

Literal Jock 🏈: Yeahhhh.. I'm pretty sure that's Charlie not you...

Darcy: Slay Nick slay

Curtain hair 💆: isn't anyone going to ask why I'm so happy?

Tara: By all means

Curtain hair 💆: Thank you Tara, ELLE DREW A PICTURE OF ME AND ITS SO GOOD SHES SO TALENTED I CANTTTT

Mr Silence 🕵️‍♂️: S...

Curtain hair 💆: Don't you dare

Mr Silence 🕵️‍♂️: Si.....

Curtain hair 💆: ALEDDDDDD

Mr Silence 🕵️‍♂️: Simpppp 😂😂

Literal Jock 🏈: FFS ALED 😂😂😂

Our Queen 👑: He's not a simp, he just recognises talent 😏🧡

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Char: Gotta love Tao being called out by Aled 😂😂

NN: YAY YOU'RE BACK I MISSED YOU. And yeah, Aled just takes every chance and I'm here for it 😂

Char: I'm really starting to question who's the real clingy one in this relationship 😭

NN: Oh definitely you.

Char: Rude. Right! About Ben, I've been thinking, I don't really have the right to say you shouldn't be friends with you but I don't trust this situation, I'd be more comfortable if us, our relationship and any difficulties we have were kept away from him.

NN: That's fair, I know we talked it through but, you know I could never like him like 'that' right? He was just going through stuff and I was trying to be a good person.

Char: I know, I just overreacted and fucked up as per usual.

NN: Char.. that's not what I meant

Char: I know, I'm just saying what happened.

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